Here at Cranio Kent, we are acutely aware that OUR SERVICES ARE NEEDED NOW MORE THAN EVER!
I am desperately sad that because of COVID-19, many of you are having to suspend your hands-on therapy sessions for the time being. Especially knowing what important work was taking place, so many people making leaps and bounds towards where they wanted to be, not to mention those clients who rely on their maintenance sessions in order to manage pain and keep well mentally.
In addition to all of this, the current situation is challenging for everyone’s mental health and many of us need to put additional support in place right now.
I am a VERY EXPERIENCED AND WELL RESPECTED TRAUMA THERAPIST and I although I am primarily a body worker, I do have psychotherapy training and many of my clients swear by the talking therapy which I have always provided as a key part of their session.
Therefore, I have put together a PLAN OF ACTION! This is for existing clients, those in acute need, those who need ongoing support and even those who’ve never had therapy before (adults and children aged 8 and above).
I am offering UNIQUE THERAPY SESSIONS ONLINE and BY PHONE (first appointments Wednesday). I will be using a combination of specialist techniques according to the needs of you as an individual e.g. guided relaxation, talking therapy, grounding and helping you to tune in to your physiology safely (most of which is very similar to a hands-on therapy session).
The aim of these sessions will be for your nervous system to down-regulate, for you to release tension and stress that is held in your body and gain more clarity.
If you would like to give this a go, I am offering FIRST SESSIONS FOR £25 DURING MARCH * (1 hr long). This first session will allow me to assess your needs and a treatment plan will be discussed if I feel that I am able to help you going forward.
For the first time ever, you can work with me without even getting in your car! I am so excited about this new chapter and being able to help you!
Spaces are limited *, so please don’t delay, call / text me on 07956 390419 (Sarah).
Feeling STRESSED OR ANXIOUS about COVID-19? Is all this talk of COVID-19 GETTING TO YOU? Or are you more worried about self-isolating and all its implications?
It is normal to feel some ANXIETY over recent developments (and very common, look at all the panic buying). After all, we know that being vigilant about hygiene etc will slow down the spread of what to a small proportion of the population will be life threatening.
But be clear that STRESS is known to be linked to a diverse range of DISEASES. Higher levels of the stress hormone cortisol, which is secreted by the adrenal glands inhibits the activity of the immune system, making us prone to ILLNESS.
So, if you find that your WORRIES are getting out of control and its hard to KEEP PERSPECTIVE, PLEASE GET IN TOUCH, as Craniosacral Therapy is known to be often highly effective at DOWN-REGULATING THE NERVOUS SYSTEM (I see it all the time) and bringing stress levels down. And that in turn will help your IMMUNE SYSTEM.
And rest assured, HYGIENE is of tip top importance here at Cranio Kent.
I often see people suffering with extreme and chronic fatigue. It can even be progressive. They have usually tried a lot of other things before they come and see me and are desperate. They are unable to work, sometimes not even able to drive to come and see me and are relying on other people to look after them.
Of course there are fundamental things to look at first where these is fatigue.
Are you getting enough sleep?
How is your diet?
Is there an underlying medical cause eg thyroid issues, hemochromatosis etc (seek blood tests to be sure).
I still have fatigue, so how does Craniosacral Therapy help?
What I am really talking about though is people who are suffering with fatigue as part of a bigger diagnosis such as M.E or Chronic Fatigue Syndrome (CFS) or who have simply got gradually more and more run down for whatever reason.
Let’s look at the unique way that CST can help, at a very deep and profound level to build the resources of the system and alleviate fatigue – I have seen it many times!
When I tune into your system during a session, I will be tuning into the ‘tidal rhythms’ which are present in your body. This tells me a lot about the resources that you have and how well you are generally. Almost inevitably, where there is fatigue, the quality of these tidal rhythms is quiet or lacking potency. I will then look to carry out certain procedures (not manipulative) which have the effect of ‘recharging your batteries’. Over time (and this process will often take several sessions), the resources of the system build and the effects of that are profound.
It is quite common for someone to get back to leading a much more active life, getting back to work and so on as a result of the improvements made.
We all know what pain is like. Acute pain is defined as short lived, the term chronic pain is used when pain has lasted for 3-6 months or more.
In a Lancet study carried out in 2014 (Michaleff et al), it was found that reading about how pain works for 30 months plus two telephone conversations, worked as well as twenty, yes TWENTY sessions of physiotherapy!!!
Therefore, understanding how pain works is key to recovering from it.
So here, and in my clinic, I teach people why they still have pain and help them out of it.
Its important to recognise that initial pain is often an indicator of danger. It tells us to react and can save us from further injury or death e.g. if your finger is burning on the oven for example, you will automatically withdraw your hand from the heat (without even thinking). When we have just injured our back, pain is helpful, because it warns us against further injury.
However (and this is the important bit) what we now know, is that after 3-6 months, pain is rarely in the tissues but in our nervous system. That is, pain has caused our nervous system to change. Our nervous system has become too sensitive!
“Sensitization means we turn the volume up on our alarm system, but are very poor at turning the volume down.”, Steve Haines, Pain Is Really Strange.
The medical profession used to believe that chronic pain was held in the tissues of the body, now we know that it rarely is. The answer to resolving the pain issue is to show the system how to down-regulate / desensitize / ‘turn the volume down’.
I should also say at this point that unresolved emotional trauma is held in the physiology and in the limbic system, not the cognitive (thinking part of the brain) as previously thought. It often shows itself as physical pain. So whilst we may be looking for the cause of our pain by having MRI scans for example, there may well not be a structural cause.
So…..hopefully all of this goes some way to explain why Craniosacral Therapy (in my experience) is so effective in terms of reducing or eliminating pain from the body.
I could go and on about this subject, but I am passionate about helping people with pain. The people I see in my clinic have often been in pain for decades. They may have limited mobility and their quality of life / ability to work may be seriously affected.
In a treatment, bringing the system into safety is key. Safety may be a completely new experience or one that has been forgotten. Once this has been established, I teach the system to notice sensations other than the pain. This is all HUGE in terms of down-regulating the nervous system (turning the volume down).
Gradually, trauma, whether that be physical or emotional will come to the surface and release and the pain gets less or goes. This is an amazing experience for someone when the pain has been there for a long time!
So, hopefully that gives you a brief summary of why I see so many people’s pain levels reduce or disappear. These steps seem counter-intuitive I know and how can something so simple be so effective?? If you would like to understand more or see if this therapy can help you, please do get in touch.
The word anxiety gets bandied around a lot these days doesn’t it and we have all experienced it to some degree. From the ‘normal’ anxious feelings we have when we are waiting for important news, to the crippling and irrational fear that takes over our whole world.
Anxiety is something that I see at least daily in my clinic and it affects people in different ways.
Often it’s early trauma that puts us into ‘fight, flight or freeze’ (a healthy coping strategy in the short term) and we stay there (feeling anxious), not knowing how to find the ‘off switch’. Sometimes its ongoing stress that gradually takes its toll without us realising particularly, or we try and carry on as if we are okay, until we are debilitated (either by the anxiety itself or by a physical symptom which has been caused by the anxiety). The body has a habit of saying, STOP, TAKE NOTICE and if you ignore it, it will SHOUT LOUDER! At some point, we are forced to take a look at our lives and take steps to address things.
It’s a big subject so here, I am going to give an overview of how Craniosacral Therapy can help you if you are feeling anxious or have symptoms that you think may be related to anxiety and also what you can do at home to help yourself. Because however bad things are, there are things you can do that will help.
So how does Craniosacral Therapy help a stressed nervous system?
I can tell a lot about a person’s system by listening to it with my hands. A system which is in ‘fight, flight or freeze’ can feel revved up, tight, it often feels quivery and ‘slowing down’ is a challenge. The body can be very dissociated, a sense that parts (or all) of the body are missing, or parts of the body are a different shape or size to how you know they are, are common. The system sometimes feels ‘shut down’, the potency is very low and / or the client feels it is impossible to find anywhere in the body that feels ‘okay’ (these are all symptoms of trauma / stress / fear).
Step 1 is for me to work with the nervous system according to how it is presenting. Transforming a system from that which I have described, to one which is whole, present moment, grounded and feels safe and calm is MAJOR. So simple eh! Not always easy (!) but it is a simple concept. Gosh how I love this work! Because really that is a transformation and then with the newly down regulated nervous system, a new world of clarity, coping and calm becomes clear and in the stillness and resource that the system now has, is the ability to process and release specific tensions and unresolved restrictions (I won’t go into this process right now).
Now a short list of things that you can do to help yourself:
See how it is to allow the possibility that things will get better, Having hope will help you.
The first and probably the most important thing to do is feel your feet on the ground. I mean REALLY feel them on the ground. Take your shoes and socks off and go and walk on the grass or barefoot in the earth. Ooo, the beach would be lovely! Make this a daily thing and really notice the sensations you feel through your feet. This is what it is to be in the present moment.
Notice that in this exact moment (truly being present), 99% of your worries are gone. There is no anxiety.
Be interested in the intense sensations that you feel, rather than going into panic – you have a choice here. Practice curiosity and notice how your physiology prepares you for action. Notice what is around you and that you are actually safe in this moment. This will often help the feelings to change or ease.
Recognise that in anxiety, we often imagine the worst case scenario (predicting the future). Our brains want to protect us, but by imagining the worst, we are sent into panic mode. Recogising that you are doing this is fabulous progress. Consider that this is not rational thought. There is a choice here.
Surrounding yourself with people who are good for you is great for anxiety. Who do you feel safe with? Conversely, who do you need to avoid? Is that possible?
A hug or a listening ear can really help anxiety. Tell someone close how you are feeling, else they won’t know.
Its always important to do the basics, but especially when you are struggling with anxiety. Eat as healthily as you can and prioritise sleep. Try and spend some time outside, preferably moving / doing exercise. Treat yourself (i.e. something that’s good for you).
The more we do all of this, the more automatic it becomes (our default in other words). Otherwise anxiety can feel like a trap that we can’t get out of.
But you can get out of it. By understanding more about what is happening in your brain, you can show yourself how to respond differently.
Remember, you are not alone. I can help you with all of this and guide you to a more relaxed way of living. Support from a professional can really make the world of difference. Your mental health matters!
What does it mean it to you? A spa weekend and some retail therapy or is it the simpler (but not easier) things like monitoring your self talk or looking at why you find it so hard to take care of yourself?
What forms does self care take? And why is it hard for some people?
The more I understand about self care, the more I have come to appreciate that people are very different.
Probably due to early conditioning, at one extreme there are people who only know how to be self critical. Possibly they grew up with a lot of critisism, or parents with low self esteem. They don’t feel worthy of anything better and this continual harsh self talk only serves to do more harm. “What would you tell yourself if you were your own best friend?”, I often say. Sometimes we need to be the nurturing mother that we never had.
Others who find it easier to love themselves and show themselves kindness and compassion tend to be better not only at identifying what they need, but prioritising those things. They consider their physical, emotional and mental well-being, to be of paramount importance, and they take the time and invest the money in that. They feel worthy of self love.
The role of Craniosacral Therapy in self care
When people first come to see me, they can be at various stages of connection, grounding, resource and ability to process trauma. Craniosacral Therapy is the best way I know to meet your system where it is at and to gain a better understanding of what it is that you need. You are likely to become more and more aware of what your needs are as your treatment program progresses (i.e. your self awareness will improve).
My role is to support you in this process. I will listen to your system (with my hands). Your system knows what it needs and I will follow your body’s own inherent treatment plan, in order for you to move closer to health.
What are your reasons for seeking help….?
How self-care got me to my first ever 5k at 46 years old!
Anyone who knows me well, would tell you that I’ve never been a runner. I’ve been a wanna-be runner.
My dad ran marathons into his late 70s (he used to get automatic entry into the London marathon, his time was so good).I’ve tried to get into running several times over the last 4 or 5 years and never got very far. I even had a personal trainer at one point. Seriously, every time I tried, I’d either get injured or ill and had to stop. It was crazy. I came to the realisation that, for some reason that I didn’t understand, I would never be able to do it.
However, in recent months, I had been paying more attention to the fact that generally in life, I have always been pretty hard on myself and getting a better understanding of that. How, being driven, determined, and focused had served me well in life and got me through situations that otherwise I certainly would not have. However, where was that nurturing mother part of me? I was super comfortable looking after others, in fact its probably my favourite thing to do(!), but looking after myself, hmm, I still find myself squirming slightly at the idea.
And in amongst this self reflection came a thought… what if all the struggle with running was down to my lack of self-care? That idea that I HAD to push myself, that I could succeed against any odds and didn’t need to go slowly (I must be fairly fit surely?!). What if that was the problem? How would it be to approach things as if I was being my own nurturing mother? The answer was, I realised, that I would follow a gentle program like ‘Couch to 5k’. To the letter. No skipping out the first three or four weeks, or skipping anything out in fact. Just….. going…. slowly. Then I’d really know if it was possible for me to run a 5k.
So I did. I started ‘Couch to 5k’ and I can honestly say that the hardest part for me was the going slow. Sticking rigidly to the program, arrggghh, so hard to do!! I had to getting back in touch with that nurturing mother part of me
But here I am, week 9 and running 5k, three times a week. I honestly cannot believe it! And what’s more I’m really enjoying it and whilst there’s that urge to push on and do more (surely 10k isn’t that much!?), I’m going easy on myself and sticking with this for now.
So, self care for me isn’t just about booking a spa weekend or treating yourself to something new, it starts with the way you talk yourself. And I challenge you to look at that very seriously. Just observe and then ask yourself what you would be saying if you were own nurturing mother? For me its an ongoing process, but one which I know will be good for me and it is likely to be good for you too.